If you like W.A.P, then like it. If you want to wax your bits, then wax them. If you want to wear symbols of femininity, then wear them. If you want to be a stay-at-home mother, then be one. If you want to be a boss lady, then be one. Do it all with pride, do it all equally. We must write our own narratives, reject male-centric rules and self-judgement to create the space for women to be guilty, naughty, nasty, unique, mothers, bosses and, above all, feminists. Good or bad.